Writing a book is a lot of work (understatement of the century). But, self-publishing that sucker makes writing it look like a walk in the park. I was recently trying to explain the process to a good friend of mine. She and her husband are renovating an old Victorian home. As we were swapping “sweat-equity” stories, it dawned on me…the two endeavors are not that dissimilar. The only difference, I told her, is that self-publishing for the first time, is like building your own house, but with no experience, no blueprints, and no tools. Here are my top-ten reasons that self-publishing a book is like building a house:
- It always takes longer than you planned
- It always costs more than you planned
- It’s really exciting at first, then it begins to consume your entire life
- Agonizing over the simplest detail seems normal
- You wake up, at least once a night, and add one more thing your to-do list
- Everyone has an opinion on how it should be done
- People keep asking you, “So, when is it going to be finished?”
- No one truly “gets it” unless they’ve done it
- You vow to never do it again
You eventually give up the notion that it is going to be absolutely perfect and enjoy the ride- You forget about #9 and do it again!
I love hearing from you. Please feel free to share your experiences in the comments. Happy writing!
Adam Henig
October 3, 2014 at 4:06 am
Good analogy.
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jjspina
October 4, 2014 at 1:00 am
So true and funny because I understand each one but keep on doing the same thing again and loving it! Ha!
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JenniferJensen
October 4, 2014 at 7:13 pm
Having done a lot of remodeling AND published a book, the analogy is spot on! Thanks, looking forward to more.
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Beverley Blount
October 5, 2014 at 4:51 am
After 10 self-published books over 20 years, I’m still building mansions, brick by brick. My first SiFi book Silversuit III just went live and my life’s work, The Blount Guide to Reading, Spelling and Pronouncing English (2nd Edition) came out in March. I used the 1st edition in workshops and ended up rewriting it from stem to stern to make it look more professional. I sell it at every school I show it to.
My hat’s off to every editor and proof-reader in the world. Silversuit III was checked umpteen times and after X number of galleys poured over, when I held it in my hand, it opened to a page where the word ‘to’ was missing! (However only 1 of 2 typos.)
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Melissa
October 15, 2014 at 3:00 am
Great post. I completely agree 🙂 Although I’m most of us will end up doing it again 😉
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Michelle R. Eastman
October 15, 2014 at 2:57 pm
Hi Melissa. Thanks for connecting. I am beginning work on book #2, so it’s official-I am crazy! Best wishes to you on all of your endeavors.
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Michelle R. Eastman
December 12, 2015 at 6:12 pm
Reblogged this on Michelle Eastman Books.
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Jennifer Jensen
December 12, 2015 at 6:22 pm
So true, but you forgot #11: Despite your vow in #9, when your breathing gets back to normal, you suddenly find yourself doing it all over again. 🙂
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Michelle R. Eastman
December 12, 2015 at 6:52 pm
I think I need to augment the list! Ha! You are correct-we do it all over again!
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cicampbell2013
December 12, 2015 at 6:25 pm
Lol! So funny!
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S M Spencer
December 12, 2015 at 8:15 pm
Ahhh how true – love the list 😊😊😊
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Norah
December 13, 2015 at 12:41 pm
I think this is a great analogy. I am working on a website of teaching resources at the moment and am having the same experience! 🙂
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